Bathroom-Mission Complete

In December of 2012 we began demo ling our master bathroom.  It was in a major need of repair.  Things were growing that shouldn't be growing, water leaking where water shouldn't be leaking, and most of all having the door in the way of the toilet.  We were limited in what we could do as far as redesigning, we were not in the mood to change out the main plumbing in the bathroom.  By moving the door down and turning the sink to be next to the toilet to be more functional.  I don't have any before pictures, but that is okay because the bathroom was bad.

Now I am writing this in June and that isn't because it has taken this long for me to get around to writing, instead it has taken this long to finish.  When you take something down to the studs you are bound to in counter obstacles.  Grant added some outlets, re did the electrical, rearranged the plumbing, built a half wall between the shower and toilet, and added a light in the shower area.  Then there was putting up Sheetrock, the mudding, the sanding, then mudding again, the texturing, and the paint.  After all that came the tile and there was a lot and a lot of little customize cutting.  Our bathroom is small making it difficult for two people to work without getting in each others way.   Most of the tile in the bathroom was laid by Anthony.  Grant was able to show Anthony how to lay tile and so Grant would cut and Anthony would put it up.  It is neat to look back and see all of Anthony's work.  I know that Anthony is proud of himself and I know every time Grant goes in the shower he is reminded of the time he and Anthony spent together.  So Anthony now knows how to lay tile and skill that comes in handy.

After six months of work and six months of having one bathroom and with us all sharing one shower we are happy to have our bathroom back.  We didn't put a door in because the bathroom is close to the entrance of our room and so we use our bedroom door for privacy.  In the beginning we decided to skip the door to save time, but I don't think it would have save us much time.  Grant and I love our bathroom and we love the fact more that it is done and Grant is really happy not to be cutting tile; that is for a little while.  We still need to tile the hallway in our bedroom and then there is the kitchen that still needs to be done, but that is for another day.  Right now we will enjoy the fact that another major remodel is checked off the list.

Spencer is Six

Spencer was so excited when his birthday rolled around.  He was excited to be able to have cupcakes at school, to be able to wear the birthday crown, and to be able to eat lunch with Daddy.  I think most of all he was excited that now he has to use two hands to show how old he is!  It was fun celebrating his day by going bowling, glow in the dark golf, and the boys were able to enjoy a round of laser tag.  We did all this at Main Event where they have a special going where you pay one flat fee and get to play all you want and as long as you want.  After we played our heart out we came home for cake, the birthday song and blowing out candles, and opening presents.  Spencer was more excited about the presents then the cake and so he graciously took a few bites of cake and then was ready to open presents.  Spencer wanted more than anything to have a drum set and his parents made his dream come true.  Things have gotten a bit louder at the Cooper Household, but it is fun to watch him play the drums and Madeline play the guitar and give a concert.  Spencer loves The Wiggles and loves to sing and dance along while watching, and now that he has his own drum set he can be a full fledged Wiggle and drum along to the songs.  The day after his birthday Spencer toted his drum set around to different parts of the house playing and then when he was done with the inside he went outside and took it around the backyard and even up the tree house.  Each spot he would play for a bit and then move onto a different spot.  He wanted to know how his drums sounded in each of the different locations.  I can say for certain that Spencer didn't like his drums when I decided to use them to wake him up one morning to get ready for school.  Now for a little bit on Spencer.

Spencer is a happy go lucky kind of kid.  He always has a smile on his face and he always ready to have fun.  Spencer loves to live each day to the fullest having fun along the way.  It is never a dull moment when Spencer is around.  He is always saying or doing something funny.  His face lights up when he smiles and he brings that joy to others.  Spencer is very persistent and full of determination.  He likes to figure things out on his own and does not give up until he knows how.  Spencer knows what he wants and goes after it.  Spencer is full of obedience and jumps right in when it is time to get things done, except when it comes to emptying out the dishwasher.  Spencer and the dishwasher are not friends right now.  Spencer is full of adventure and goes all in full throttle.  Spencer loves to play basketball, loves anything to do with water, loves to ride his bike, sing along to wiggles, listen to music on hid Dads' I-pod, and enjoys playing games.  Spencer has picked up reading in school and is diligent about plugging away at his reading assignments.  School doesn't come easy for him, but he works hard and keeps at.  Sometimes in life those that are slow and steady win the race.  Spencer loves to wrestle with his dad as well as give the family a Spencerfied music concert.  He and Madeline are best friends and are always found together playing.  Spencer loves to cuddle with his Mommy and he loves his oatmeal in the morning.  One of the qualities that I love about Spencer is his zeal for life.  He is a great example to me of a positive attitude and finding the joy and enjoyment in everyday.  My life would be very dull without Spencer and I am so blessed and honored that Heavenly Father sent Spencer into our home.  He gives us adventure and sometimes we need that around here.  I love to see him smile and I love to see the happiness that lies within his eyes.  He truly has a positive and happy attitude and that is something that we can learn from.  He has brought so much joy and laughter to our home and I know that will only continue to grow in the future!

May Happenings

The school year is winding down and I am so happy.  I look forward every year to being able to have things run at a slower pace and where we can spend time together doing fun things and making fun memories.  You always know when school winds down because there are a bunch of activities to attend to all at once.  At the beginning of May the boys had their field day.  They moved it inside because of the weather.  Usually we have to worry about rain, but this time when had a cold snap come through and it was rather chilly with a strong north wind.  It was a little different navigating through the halls with all the classes and grade levels participating in different activities.  My plan was to watch Spencer in the morning and Anthony in the afternoon, but I ended up staying with Spencer to help his teacher with getting 20 Kindergartners to the different stations throughout the school and not get lost or trampled by the older kids.  It was nice that after Spencer was done doing his activity, Anthony's class came for their turn, so I was able to see a little of Anthony too.  Most of the games were geared towards the little kids so there were parts that Anthony was a little less than thrilled to do, but he did them with a smile.  Madeline was a trooper and followed me around for the day cheering her brothers on.  There were some of the volunteers that still remembered Madeline and so they were kind enough to make accommodations for her to be able to participate in some of the activities so she was excited about that.

After field day was the big anticipated Kindergarten field trip to the zoo.  Grant was able to tweak his schedule so that he could be there for Spencer's special and important day.  I was able to go along with Madeline so it was a family affair.  They split up the kids with the parents and as individual groups you tour the zoo and eat lunch at your own leisure.  They give us a time and location to return and with that you are off on your own to explore and learn.  I like that we are not in a big group trying to all stay together and keep track of the kids.  There were enough parents going that each group had one or two kids in addition to your own child.  We are only had one additional kid and he ended up getting sick that morning so for us it was a family zoo trip, which was kind of nice.  It ended up raining so it was fun going through the zoo in the rain, but luckily it didn't really down pour until the end.

At school Anthony is apart of the Student Council.  Throughout the year they participate in different service projects and fundraisers to support different things at school and charities that they are raising money for.  Because of their hard work they were the recipients of the National Student Council School of Excellence Award.

Of course you can't have May without Spencer's birthday, but I will do that in a post of its own.  Lets just say it is hard to believe that my youngest is six years old.

Lastly, Mother's day this year was fun.  The kids enjoyed spoiling me for the weekend and I was reminded of the blessing and joy it is to be their mother.  I was able to celebrate Mother's Day by playing the organ in church and giving a talk, both went well.  We did most of our celebrating on Saturday.  The kids went out shopping at an office supply store because I had reward rebate money that I needed to use up and then Grant took me to Khols where I had some Kohl's cash that I needed to use. Afterwards they took me out to dinner.  I wanted to have a new skirt for when I gave my talk and so everyone was nice enough to allow me to find a skirt.  Afterwards we went out for a nice yogurt treat.  Sunday I was able to take my usual nap, have a nice dinner, and be able to open some nice presents.  The kids were so excited to present me with their cards and gifts and I really enjoyed seeing the smiles on their face.  Spencer made a card at school with flowers.  The object was for me to pull a flower out and listed was a chore that Spencer was going to do for me.  Spencer was very certain that the chores listed on the flowers were for me to do and not for him, so that was funny!  Being a mother is a gift and a joy and a calling that I am honored that Heavenly Father has given me the opportunity to be.

Fifth Grade Camp

Back in mid April, Anthony had a week long trip to a learning camp where the kids learn and experience different things in science.  It is the highlight for the fifth graders.  Grant was able to take the week off and go with Anthony as a chaperon.  They have cabins one for the girls and one for the boys.  Grant and a few other dads braved the week in a cabin full of boys.  During one of the parent meetings they brainstormed different ways to wake up the boys and settled on Grant playing his trumpet each morning.  So every morning Grant would stand in the corner and belt out different turns, much to delight of the kids.  On the last morning that they were there Grant shared the love with girls and played them a few songs to help since they were struggling to get out of bed.  From what I hear it was fun, at least for the leaders.

Anthony was able to do various activities like horse back riding, hiking, evening skits, team building activities, and of course crafts.  There were classes on water, our imprint in the environment, and animal tracks.  From the reports that were given, Anthony enjoyed himself immensely.  Also from the reports I learned Anthony has a reputation as being very smart among his peers and their parents.  One of the instructors was giving a discussion on Antarctica  and he started it out with asking what the largest continent is, of course Anthony answers Asia.  The instructor replies that it is Antarctica and Anthony politely tells him it is Asia.  One of the parent spoke up saying that if Anthony says it is Asia then it must be correct.  The instructor then decided to go about his discussion a different way.

Another occasion where his reputation was brought into the spotlight was during their water lesson.  They were learning how much water they consume and the instructor has the kids multiply and add a few numbers to get the correct answer, Anthony pipes up right away with the answer and the instructor thinking that Anthony couldn't know the answer that fast asked a parent use their phone's calculator to get the answer.  This time Anthony's teacher asked "Did Anthony Answer?" and when the class said yes then she said "then it is right."  The instructor ignored what the teacher said and asked for someone to use their calculator to give the answer.  Mrs. Breunig this time said without using her calculator that it was right.  Anthony this year has become the class tutor helping the teacher out when she needs help in assisting those who don't understand what is being presented.  I am confident to say I think he enjoys it.

The camp is a nicely run camp and during the school year they host several schools during various weeks where they teach and instruct the kids on various things related to science.  Then when school isn't in session they host families, and the families are able to participate in all the activities they have there or they can just camp in the cabins they have there and do things on their own.

Anthony came back tired and with lots to say.  There is a difference when someone in the family is gone, but I am glad that Anthony and his Dad were able to have some good father and son experiences.

April Hapenings

April has been a busy month for us.  The Master Bathroom is still not finished and with the way things are going I am hoping maybe in May it will be done.  Grant has been busy with work travel, Boy Scout campout, and a week long fifth grade campout.  One needs to be home to be able to work on the bathroom.

The month started out with Anthony having his first court of honor.  He received the Boy Scout joining award as well as his Polar Bear Patch.  He is just a couple of requirements away from getting his Tenderfoot and a few away from getting his Second Class.  He is really enjoying Scouts and the leaders are enjoying having a scout who is enthusiastic about scouting.  Anthony was also called to be the Patrol leader for the eleven year old patrol.  To say he is excited is an understatement.

For the past six weeks Spencer has been going to a soccer clinic at the rec. center.  For the most part they play around and have fun playing soccer and learning the rules and some techniques to the game.  Spencer really enjoyed it and for him he thought was really playing soccer.  Grant and I were okay with this as we are selfish and don't want to give up our Saturdays for soccer games.  While Spencer would be at his soccer clinic, Grant and I would walk the track.  Spencer had fun waving to us as we would pass.  It was fun to watch him and see his excitement.  You could definitely tell when he was bored.  The only downside was the coach had the kids kick the ball one at a time, and when you have several boys you do spend a lot of time waiting your turn; hence the reason why Spencer would get bored.  On their last class they allowed the parents come and watch.  We thought they would play a game, but it was just a regular practice that we had seen the previous six weeks.  It was kind of weird being in the room and watching the parents of the other kids busy on their various electronic devices.  I decided something needed to be done, so Grant and I started cheering every time Spencer kicked the ball or demonstrated a skill.  We definitely got some looks from the others parents, but we didn't mind Spencer knew we were proud of him.  I think we might have embarrassed Anthony, but Madeline enjoyed cheering for Spencer.

At the beginning of April, I got a call from the school principal telling me that Anthony was awarded Outstanding Student of the Year.  This is only given to fifth graders and there is one boy and one girl selected from the school.  The fifth grade teachers nominate one boy and one girl from their class (so in Anthony case he was one of four boys nominated) and then the rest of the faculty vote.  Anthony received 16 votes and the second place boy received 7 votes.  Anthony didn't barely one he kicked it out of the park.  There is a special banquet to celebrate and award those who won from each of the elementary, middle, and high schools.  A few weeks prior Anthony found out he had been nominated and he was secretly hoping he would win.  I knew he would because he has a high reputation at the school.  Everyone know who Anthony is and those who know him our impressed by him and his character.  When the principal called me I had to fight back the tears so I could make it through the conversation.  I wanted to be there so bad to give him a hug, but had to wait until after school.  He was all smiles when he came out to the car that afternoon.  On the day of the dinner, Madeline and I decorated his room to show him how proud we were of him.  Apparently this award is a big deal!

Easter this kind of snuck up on me.  We did do our count down week and it was nice to go through the last days of our Savior's life.  We really enjoyed the Bible Videos the church has put out on the Internet.  Those really helped and made things easier for me.  Spencer had his Kindergarten Easter Egg hunt so Madeline and I went up to the school and watched him.  They take the eggs and spell out Happy Spring and the kids then find all the letters in Happy Spring along with a flower and that makes 12 eggs.  When they find all 12 then they sit down.  The teacher then checks the eggs.  It is a simple egg hunt.  This year they did the hunt at the park across the street so after the hunt the kids got play at the park.  I love to see Spencer's smile on his face when I come up to the school to participate in his school activities.  On the home front I decided to dye Easter Eggs this year.  I think the last time we did this Anthony as a 18 months, so it has been awhile.  It was a little nerve racking with Spencer but we made it out a live without spilling the dye.  We do our Easter Egg hunt on Saturday as well as presents.  We save the spiritual and most important side of Easter for Sunday.  This year everyone received a small Lego set as a Easter present.  Knowing that our kids are not that big into candy I took all the Lego pieces out of the boxes and used those to fill their Easter eggs.  To keep the sets all together each kid had their own color of Easter eggs to find.  To spice things up even more we did a glow in the dark Easter egg hunt.  I just had small plastic eggs so getting the glow sticks in the eggs was a bit challenging, next year I will make sure to have the large plastic eggs.  For Madeline's safety we hid them inside the house and turned off the lights.  The eggs acted as night lights so the kids were able to see their way around.  After all the eggs were found the kids then opened their eggs to reveal their present.  I thought it was a pretty ingenious way to handle things.

Of course you can't have April without mentioning General Conference.  In years past I would spend time getting packets together for the kids to fill only to find a lot of blank pages at the end of conference.  This year I gathered a few games we had around the house that the kids could play during conference and called it good.  We did decorate the office for conference as well as setting up a cupcake bar.  I kept things simple by just having a conference party and the kids enjoyed the conference the same as they did when I spent all that time printing things off for them to do.  In between sessions on Saturday we did go for a family bike ride where Spencer learned the importance of slowing down when going down hill.  I was busy holding onto Madeline so she wouldn't crash, Grant was putting his bike away because it had a flat tire, and Anthony was out ahead.  I was yelling at Spencer to slow down as he went down the hill and he is yelling back I don't know how.  Well anyway he had his first hard crash, but the good thing was he got back on his bike and rode.  When we got back to the point of injury he got off his bike and walked with it.  He now knows how to apply the brakes.

This concludes April for the Cooper family.  I will make sure to record Anthony's experience with fifth grade camp.  Hopefully progress on the bathroom will be done, and Grant and I will be celebrating 13 years of marriage, it doesn't seem like we have been married that long.  April has definitely been good to us.

We decided to follow Sister Dalton's suggestion for putting a scripture in a secret spot.  Since we are doing our shower we thought we would put own on scripture up to be covered by the tile.  Now every time we take a shower we will remember to not only be physically clean but spiritually as well.

2013 Spring Break Campout

Every year for Spring Break we go camping.  Recently we have picked where we go near tourist places.  Anthony is a big history buff and loves to explore and learn about Texas History as well as the Civil War.  This year we went to Lake Somerville State Park which is near Washington on the Brazos where there Texas Declaration of Independence was signed.  We arrived at our camp ground on Wednesday afternoon.  After we set camp up we did some hiking, exploring the camp grounds, and the kids rode their bikes around.

Thursday:  This was our big field trip day.  We went to go explore Washington on the Brazos.  Anthony was in Heaven and for him it was like Christmas morning.  We took a tour of a replica of Independence Hall.  The original was burned down when the town of Washington, Texas was engulfed by fire.  Near Independence Hall they have a little museum with different maps of how Texas came to be its own state as well as important figures in the shaping of Texas' Independence from Mexico.  After our tour there we went to Star of the Republic Museum.  The museum had various exhibits on what life was like back in the 1800s as well as what life was like for those who traveled by boat.  They did have a little hands on exhibit depicting life back in the 1800s.  You were able to pretend you making butter, quilting, as well as playing the various games that kids enjoyed back then.  By this time the kids were hungry and so we found a nice place to picnic.  When we were going to get out we were visited with Mother Nature in the form of Texas size spring winds.  Knowing how difficult it would be for Spencer and Madeline to manage their food with it being windy we opted to eat in our car.  By doing it this way, it ensured that Grant and I would be able to eat as well.  Our last stop for the day was the Barrington Living Farm.  The Barrington Farm is where Anson Jones lived who was the last president of the Republic of Texas.  The farm was a living and working farm and everything was hands on.  The kids were able to experience farm life in the 1800s and they were also able to see how the homes were decorated.  This was a self guided tour which are the kinds we like; you know Spencer is not much for talking.  There were workers there dressed up in period clothing available to answer questions.  It was like going to Nauvoo.  We were able to see a meat cellar and see the process of drying out and curing the meat.  Spencer and Madeline enjoyed this part of our field trip the best, they haven't caught the history bug like Anthony.

We got back to the camp site close to dinner time and we were all pretty exhausted.   We all slept good that day.

Friday:

Early that morning Grant took off with the boys to the lake to go canoeing and fishing.  Spencer didn't want to go, you know he has to be difficult, but we made him go anyway.  Madeline does not like how the boat rocks so she usually stays behind.  We spent the morning biking and then afterwards I took her for a little hike down to the water.  We were able to throw rocks in the water and look at all the birds and other wildlife there.  I called Grant to see where they were and with a little description I was able to pinpoint them out in the distance.  I showed Madeline and she said lets go hike over there.  From where we were it didn't look that far to her.  I didn't want to crush her enthusiasm and so I agreed.  Grant was shocked but I told him that if need be we would just turn back.  Madeline was definitely gun hoe about going and enjoyed it.  I on the other hand was nervous.  We reached a point where we were blazing our own trail and it was at this point that I told Madeline there is no turning back we will have to finish this little hike.  I had to carry Madeline for a bit because the grass and plants were taller than her and you couldn't see her and she couldn't see where to go.  After a bit we did make it to the other side of the lake and found the boys.  Grant was definitely surprised and I was too!  Madeline thought it was awesome and you could see she was proud of herself.

The kids really enjoyed riding their bikes around.  We learned on this trip that Madeline is not able to see on her left side so if someone passes her on the left there is a good chance that she won't see them.  Madeline also can't hear the noises around her with the noise of wheels hitting the pavement.  This made us nervous with her riding on the road.  Again we didn't want to crush her dreams or her desires to ride like her brothers and so Grant and I took turns running along side her to protect and to warn her of things around her.  This opened our eyes to a lot of things and we are brainstorming ways that we can allow her to be more independent when riding a bike.

Grant and Anthony went on a little hike together.  Anthony wanted to explore a trail on his bike.  Grant didn't bring his bike so Grant ended up running just to keep up with Anthony, but the report was they did have a good time exploring.  Grant and I were happy to see Anthony wanting go exploring especially on his bike, he isn't one to be adventurous.

That night we played glow in the dark bowling.  The kids thought that was a lot of fun!  We did the usual smores, movie night in the tent and playing games.  Grant and I took a little walk down to the lake, but we had to go through a maze of fishing poles.  I have never seen so many fishing poles staked to the ground.  It made it hard to walk along the sand, but it was still nice to get away.

Overall our camping trip was fun, we were sure sad to see Spring Break come to an end.  I can't wait for Summer break, it is nice when I can control the schedule and when things slow down a bit.

March Happenings

Nice weather is here, but I guess living in Texas we really never experience cold weather.  I do love Spring.  I love how it brings a feeling of fresh start and I enjoy being able to take advantage of longer day light hours.

Grant's work in conjunction with Legoland had a lego building fun day for the kids.  This was our first time to go inside Grant's work, due to security we can only go inside on family day and those are on Sundays usually during church.  The kids were excited to be able to go inside Daddy's work even if it was just the cafeteria.  There were two options the kids could choose from, Lego Masters or on your own build.  For Lego Masters you were just given a bag of legos and then at your appointed time you would go and build your helicopter with help from the masters at Legoland.  For on your own build you got to chose a kit and essentially build it on your own.  Seeing the crowds of people we chose build your own.  Anthony does not need any help when it comes to Legos, Madeline is getting pretty good and we are lucky if we can get Spencer to focus through at least a couple of steps.  Between Grant and I we were confident that we could help Madeline and Spencer.  There was a 5.00 fee for each kid and the kits we chose would at least been double that at the store so we thought it was a win win situation.  We picked out our lego set (which of course was a helicopter) and found a corner and went to town.  Our kids finished before the rest of the event really kicked off.  We looked around for a bit at the lego displays they had there and treated our kids to the consession stands.  After our lunch and looking around we headed home.  I wasn't sure if the kids thought it was a fun outing because we finished so fast, but as we were leaving Anthony expressed what a fun time it was.  It is always nice to hear that reassurance from your kids.

We just finished with Spring Break and I love Spring Break.  I love for one week of not being dictated by the schools schedule and instead we can dictate our own schedule.  I love how for one week things slow way down and we can spend lots of time with each other.  Spring Break gets me really excited for Summer Break.  It is a tradition in our family to go camping every year for Spring Break and that is what we did.  For Monday and Tuesday of Spring Break we stayed home.  I wanted to give the kids something fun to do so I devised a nerf gun battle once their dad came home from work.  I made a warning sign for him to see on the door and I included a loaded nerf gun with extra bullets.  The kids and I made forts throughout the living room and we each had our own loaded nerf gun with extra bullets.  Once we knew Daddy was home we all went to our designated spots to prepare for battle.  It was a fun nerf gun battle that lasted for 30 minutes; having the forts made it extra fun.  Bullets were flying everywhere, in fact I am still finding them as I clean.  Our nerf gun battle turned into a tickle match and when that was done we headed to the Rec Center to go swimming in their indoor pool.  After swimming we went to Taco Bell for dinner.  It was a lot of fun to have a solid few hours that evening spending time together.  While we were eating our dinner at home it was fun and neat to talk as a family about our evening and what we liked about it.  I treasure these moments!

Tuesday was spent with packing and getting the house cleaned up for our trip.  I try to get the house nice and clean before we go anywhere so I don't have to come home to a messy house, it sure makes unpacking easier.  It is quit an adventure and an undertaking to get ready to go camping, but the kids enjoy camping and they are all pretty good about pitching in and helping out.

Of course in Cooper style we packed our camping trip full of fun activities so I will let that have its own post.

February Happenings

February has been rather a quiet month for us, which is great, but we have done a few things that are worth mentioning.  Some of the more significant events are getting a post all of their own, but the every day stuff I will lump into one awesome post!

1.  Grant is still working on the bathroom, but we noticed that with all the dust from sheet rock and mudding that it was starting to affect the kid's asthma.  Grant plugged away on a couple of late nights to get that all done and then he spent a day deep cleaning the floors and doing what he could to rid the house of all the dust.  Spencer decided he wanted to jump in and help, which is not at all Spencer.  Spencer and chores mix together like oil and water.  Grant handed Spencer a rag and with Spencer like enthusiasm he hand cleaned the floor.  I think he just like being able to play in the water and not get in trouble.  Anyway after a lot of hard work we were able to rid the house of the dust and the asthma issue went away.  The bathroom is still a work in progress but at least the walls are painted and the tile is starting to be brought in.  I am confident it will be done sometime this year.

2.  One of the mornings in February the boys had Doughnuts with Daddy.  It was mainly a way for them to plug the Watch Dogs program and to get more Dads on board.  The boys enjoyed being able to have breakfast with Daddy at school.  Spencer asks often when daddy can be a Watch Dog at the school, but with Grant's work schedule it just isn't possible.  Maybe things will slow down and Grant can spend the day helping out at the school.

3.  For a few months now Anthony has been our babysitter.  It has been a nice treat to be able to go on a weekly date with Grant.  On one particular evening we came home to see the kids gathered together and Anthony reading to Madeline and Spencer.  We tell Anthony that he is going to be a great Daddy one day, to which is rolls his eyes.  He has really stepped up to the responsibility of watching Madeline and Spencer.  He feeds them and when needed he gets them ready for bed.  He has even learned the ropes on giving Madeline her medicine.  Now that is a special treat having an extra set of hands in getting her medicine ready.  When her tummy hurts, Anthony isn't afraid of hooking her g-button up to the syringe that relieves her tummy of the built up gas.  Grant and I are enjoying the freedom that comes from having an older child who can and will watch his younger siblings.

4.  Spencer has been showing some interest in wanting to learn how to ride a bike, Madeline has been asking for a bigger bike, and well Anthony was still not interested in riding at all.  With our upcoming camping trip Grant and I thought it would be neat to be able to have the kids bring bikes and ride around the trails.  Spencer and Madeline were all on board and I saw this as a great opportunity to challenge Anthony into riding a bike.  I casually asked him if was going to let his little brother pass him up in riding a bike.  That got him motivated to learn to ride a bike without training wheels.  We went down to the store and let everyone pick our a bike and helmet.  After school one day we headed to a nearby park to ride our bikes around the pond.  It took Spencer a little bit of time to figure the peddling out and after about 10 minutes Anthony was passing us by on his bike.  You could see the smile on his face and the excitement he felt with learning something that didn't come easy to him.  Now that the weather is nice the kids ask all the time to go to the park to ride bikes.  It is nice to see their excitement and it is nice to do something that is active as a family.

5.  In February we celebrated Chinese New Year.  We made our traditional paper lanterns, used chopsticks that we get from Panda Express, and had our traditional menu of Spaghetti.  It is always fun to see the kids use chopsticks and with Spencer's personality he is a hoot.  This year he resorted to stabbing his spaghetti.  This year we made homemade fortune cookies and each of the kids wrote fortunes/nice notes that we placed in each of the cookies.  It was fun to open them and read the notes inside.

Boy Scout Campout

On February 23, Anthony was able to go on his first Boy Scout campout and he was definitely excited.  Grant was able to go with him, which I think made it extra fun for Anthony.  Anthony loves spending time with his dad.  The troop went to a nearby Boy Scout campground.  They got a late start so they didn't get to the campground until after dark.  It happened to be a chilly night so they quickly got a fire going and got busy putting all the tents up.  Anthony knowing it was going to be cold decided to bring his little 2 man tent for him and his dad to get cozy in.  After Anthony sent up his tent he helped the others.  It didn't take long for them all to set up camp and then it was time to sit by the fire and eat s'mores.  Anthony brought supplies to share with others and we introduced the troop to how we do s'mores.  Ours is more like a s'mores buffet.  Not only do we have regular graham crackers but we also do the graham crackers with cinnamon.  We include the regular chocolate bars, but we like to also include Reses Peanut Butter Cups, York Peppermint Patties, Kit-Kat bars, and Grant likes to have flavored dark chocolates.  My favorite is a smore made with York Peppermint Patties.  Our kids aren't really to hip on the different flavores of marshmellows they have out now.  Grant says they sat around the fire for awhile eating lots of goodies until they were all done.  When it was time to hit the hay Anthony still had a little bit in him.  For Anthony you can't go camping without playing games in the tent.  He brought a Battleship card game for him and his dad to play and being the nice daddy that Grant is they stayed up for a bit and played a couple of rounds of Battleship.

The next morning they discovered frost on the tents as well as a frozen water bottle which means one thing all those present earned their polar bear patch.  Anthony actually did well through the night and didn't complain about the cold.  They immediately got a fire going and the boys went to work cooking breakfast for everyone.  Anthony was on pancake duty and he flipped those suckers until his hands were frozen cold and then he passed it off to someone else.  After breakfast they went on a 5 mile hike with each of the younger boys taking a turn navigating the map and learning to work with a compass.  Anthony got pretty tired during the end of the hike, but he stuck it out and didn't complain-that is just how he is.  They also did some knot work as well as each of the scouts taking a turn teaching another scout the square knot.

After lunch they packed up and around 6:00 that evening a tired Grant and a tired Anthony walked through the door.  Overall I think it was a pretty successful campout and Anthony was able to get a lot of things crossed off.  He has a few more requirements and he will get his Tenderfoot.  His goal is to get his First Class before he turns 12, so he is well on his way with accomplishing his goal.

Valentine's Day

Madeline was coming down with cold/respiratory illness, hence why she is not smiling.  She looks how she felt.

I have never been very big on Valentine's Day, but the kids enjoy it so I try to put some effort into it for them.  This year I decided to surprise Grant and actually get him a present.  He has mentioned a few times how he wanted to display his Boy Scout Eagle Award in a shadow box.  He wanted this for two reasons; it doesn't do any good locked up in a box and also to show Anthony want he accomplished and to help Anthony shoot for the same goal.  I decided for Valentine's Day I would do that for him.  He was very happy and surprised, surprised that I remembered and surprised that I actually gave him a gift.  Grant surprised me as well by giving me a gift.  He remembered me mentioning in passing how I like these certain water bottles so for Valentine's Day he bought me one and filled it with paper hearts.  I thought it was the perfect gift.

This year I decided to do a count down to Valentine's Day.  Every morning there would be a heart taped on each of the kid's door with what I love about them.  Some days I would include what I appreciate about them too.  When Valentine's Day came each child had 14 hearts on their door.  I really loved doing this because I was able to focus on them and their divine qualities.  Sometimes it is easy to get hanged up on the day to day grind that we tend to lose focus, but for 14 days my focus was clear and I saw them for the Children of God that they are.  Valentine's Day is long past and the hearts are still on the door, they just don't want to take them down.  I think I have started a new tradition, and it is a pretty good one too!

For our family activity I thought it would be fun to have a nice dinner with candle light.  The kids never have had dinner with candles so at first they thought it was strange, but quickly warmed up to the idea.  They mainly thought it was cool to eat in the dark.  For dessert I made red ice cream floats with red edible sugar sprinkled on top.  It was simple but everyone enjoyed it.  I have learned in recent years that great memories can be created even when you simplify things.  With me homeschooling Madeline I have had to learn to simplify and I have discovered that the kids get just as excited as when I killed myself to put on a production.

I knew the boys would be getting Valentine's from school and with Madeline being homeschool I didn't want her to feel left out.  I had Madeline make a Valentine sack and then I had the boys each make her a Valentine's Day card.  Both sets of Grandparents sent Valentine's Day cards as well so I saved those to include in her sack.  So when the boys came home with all their loot I was able to surprise Madeline with her very own loot as well.  When they were done with exploring all their loot from school, I surprised them with a gift from Mommy and Daddy.\

Even though I think Valentine's Day is a day for the card makers and florist to make lots of money, it is nice to stop remember those you love and to remember why.  Sometimes it is also nice to think outside of the box and give a gift truly from your heart.

Arrow of Light

On February 3, Anthony received his Arrow of Light award and crossed over to Boy Scouts.  They had the ceremony at the Boy Scout Museum and they brought in a local troop to do the Arrow of Light ceremony.  There were 19 boys in Anthony's pack that received their Arrow of Lights that evening, pretty impressive.  Between the 19 boys there were four different troops there to receive their boys.  For cub scouts Anthony went to a community pack, but for Boys Scouts Anthony chose to go with our troop in our ward.  Brother Walker was able to come and receive Anthony which we were grateful for. After the Arrow of Light ceremony the families there were able to explore the museum.  It has been on our bucket list to go to the Boy Scout Museum but we just never have gotten around to it.  The kids really enjoyed all the hands on things to do there.  In addition to the exhibit they also have an art exhibit with lots of Rockwall paintings.  Madeline really enjoyed looking at the paintings, she is starting to get into art.

It was a great evening and we are so proud of Anthony and all the hard work he has done.  Anthony is enjoying Boy Scouts and has the fire and desire to get his eagle, he is so excited for what lies ahead for him.

January

January has been a non eventful month for the Cooper household.  We have been plenty busy, but just not with anything blog worthy.  The sickness has come through our household, but only to the parents. The kids have surprisingly not gotten sick which is a nice bonus, so we will count our blessings.  Life pretty much went back to normal busy routine for us after the holidays.  Anthony finished off cub scouts and is now a boy scout, Grant received a new calling as second counselor in the Elder Quorum and is getting adjusted to life with church meetings.  There is still piano, homework, therapy, and homeschooling.  Life for us is pretty much rolling on, but there were a few highlights that are worth mentioning.

For one week Spencer brought home kinderbear.  It was his assignment to do different activities with kinderbear and take pictures of them for the class scrapbook.  I have never seen a kid so excited about a homework assignment.  Kinderbear went everywhere and for one week they even slept together.  For our week, kinderbear went on a Spencer date with Mommy and Daddy to the grocery store and to McDonalds.  Kinderbear played at the park and even was able to go for a scooter ride.  Of course Spencer showed kinderbear the art of Wii and dinosaur playing, and to end the week kinderbear helped make ice cream sandwich cookies for FHE.  During Spencer's week with kinderbear, Spencer was also student of the week.  He was able to share his favorite toy, favorite book, and even some baby pictures.  The kids were able to ask questions and get to know Spencer.  Knowing Spencer I am sure his answers were very entertaining, sometimes you just never know what he is going to say.

For Christmas my sister made the kids a fort building kit and since then they have enjoyed building forts of all kinds of creations and then watching a movie inside.  I saw this idea on pinterest of putting Christmas lights on top of your fort for some extra fun.  We bought a few boxes of Christmas lights during the after Christmas sales and so we used those.  The kids really enjoyed building their fort with Christmas lights and they enjoyed having a movie and popcorn night as well.  This time they were able to sleep in their fort with the Christmas lights on all night long, they were over the moon with that one.  So now we have added Christmas lights to our fort building kit.  The kids are still not keen on cleaning it up though.

Last year for FHE we used the conference talks from the General Authorities as our FHE lessons and this year we are using Preach my Gospel, more specifically the chapter about developing Christ's attributes.  Grant was in charged of the lesson and he talked about the different armor we can put on to help us resist temptations.  He gathered some things around the house and dressed Spencer up.  We then took turns shooting the nerf gun (temptations that we might face) at Spencer and see which attribute he used to block the temptation; for example:  sword=scriptures.  jacket=faith.  helmet=prayer. shoes=helpfulness and kindness, etc.  For our activity we played a game that Grant did for FHE growing up.  We all had a turn with a stick and we each pretended to be an old man/woman and the object of the game was to get someone to laugh.  To start each turn the person would recite this poem:  "Here comes an old man with a stick and a staff and you must neither smile nor laugh."  It was a lot of fun and the kids really enjoyed being silly and getting us all to laugh, I have to admit it wasn't hard.

Anthony participated in his last Battle of the Books competition.  Since last Summer Anthony has been reading and re-reading 10 chapter books.  In October he took a test and made it on the team, only 6 people can make the team.  Since the test they have practice twice a week leading up until competition. I have lost count of how many times he read the books.  Anthony loves Battle of the Books and really enjoys the competition, it is highlight for school.  Out of 21 schools, Anthony's team came 4th place!  The team consists of 6 primary team members and 6 intermediate.  There are three levels of competition, Primary, Intermediate, and mixed.  After the competition everyone gets a medal and a trip to CiCi's pizza place for lunch.  This was my first year to go to the competition, usually Grant goes.  Madeline really wanted to go and cheer her brother on, she was so excited for him.  Later on we all went out for ice cream to celebrate as a family.  We try to go out for ice cream each time someone in our family accomplishes something great!  Anthony has expressed an interest in band, so now that we are headed off to middle school we will trade Battle of the Books for a trumpet and band practice.  Fun times!

That wraps up January.  Madeline is doing great in school, her stress level is done and with that we no longer have fevers or sickness.  In fact Madeline is the only one that has not gotten sick (knock on wood).  Madeline has now been able to get off one of her heart meds and one of her asthma meds.  Her asthma is now considered mild which is huge accomplishment from the severe level we started with.  Spencer is loving school and is making great progress in learning how to read and be independent.  Grant is getting ready to transfer jobs within Bell and move into a department that he has always wanted to explore.  Life is really good for us!

New Years' Eve

This year for New Years we decided to start a new tradition.  New Years Day happens to be Grant's Dad (Larry) birthday.  Larry died when Grant was young and as a result Grant doesn't have really any memories of him.  Fortunately for us a lot was kept and preserved of his life which included two scrapbooks Grant's mom put together.  The evening started out with Grant and I looking over the scrapbooks, reading the letters, and looking at the pictures.  The kids were happily entertained in the office.  It was really neat to look over the stuff, to read about Larry and to learn who is was.  I really enjoyed reading about his character, the things Larry enjoyed doing, and the funny things he said.

After Grant and I poured over the scrapbooks we marked a few pages that we wanted to share with the kids.  We started out by explaining who Larry was and the relationship he has to them.  We talked about Eternal Families and the blessings of being sealed in the Temple.  We showed the kids pictures of him and we recounted stories from his life.  It was a special night for our family.  After the scrapbook presentation we decorated the cupcakes we made in honor of Larry's birthday.  We enjoyed our cupcakes with sparkling apple juice and we each said something that we wanted to accomplish in 2013.

I learned somethings that I didn't expect to learn.  As we read about Larry I realized I was reading about Grant.  The values, goals, desires, and ambitions that Larry held dear are the very things I see in Grant.  With this realization I learned although Larry may be gone from us physically he is still with us in his children.  I also learned of the great importance it is for me to teach our children the same values and character traits Larry possessed so his legacy and life will continue on for many generations.  I guess that is the whole meaning behind Family History.  I was not blessed with meeting Larry in this life and although I don't know much about him, in the end I do because I know Grant.

I think I can confidently say Larry was present during our celebration and I am sure he got a kick out of us celebrating his birthday.

Christmas Part Two

We enjoyed our yearly tradition of Hot Chocolate and smores on Christmas Eve.  This year "It's a Wonderful Life" was a TV and so we ate our smores and drank our hot chocolate while watching the movie.  I was surprised to see that the kids really enjoyed watching the movie.

Grant and I were up late on Christmas Eve again, but this year we weren't busy wrapping presents.  Instead Grant was busily finishing up my present this year and I was struggling to stay awake waiting for him.  While he busily worked away in the garage I played Santa Clause and laid out the treasures to be found by the kids in the morning.  We were finally able to go to bed about 1:00 in the morning.  I am so glad that our kids slept in.  Once we heard the patter of little feet we dragged our tired selves out of bed to partake of their excitement.  Santa delivered this year by bringing everyone their desired Lego set, this alone brought lots of cheers.  We dont' have a real order to opening presents, except for one at a time.  It is always fun watching the kids tear through the paper and to see their excitement in seeing what they got.  All in all it was a successful Christmas.  After all the presents were opened it was time to assemble those Lego sets from Santa.  Anthony can build those things on his own, but Madeline and Spencer still need help.  Grant helped Spencer and I helped Madeline.  Their attention span only last so long, so in the end it was Grant and I finishing up with the building.  Madeline must have charmed Santa into bringing her the Lego friends Dollhouse.  Santa was so charmed by her beauty that he didn't think about how many pieces or steps there were to building the dollhouse.  That is okay because I found it rather enjoyable putting the dollhouse and the camper together.  Luckily for me, Madeline doesn't like to take her things apart and if it does Anthony can put it back together.

After our Lego creations were put together we decided it was a good time to eat.  Since it was too late to call it breakfast we decided to call our meal brunch.  We made green pancakes and cut them into Christmas trees.  We then used Hershey chocolate squares for the trunks of the trees and then had various sprinkles, candies, and whip cream for the kids to decorate their tree.  It went great with eggs and sausage.

Sometime in the afternoon it started to snow and the kids were excited to go out and enjoy it.  So we scrounged around the house for winter gear that would work and where there wasn't any we improvised and out the kids went with Grant to play in the wintry wonderland.  I stayed inside and took pictures.  With snow and a gusty north wind blowing it was little too cold for this Texas girl.  After the kids were frozen over they came in and warmed up with hot chocolate.

The rest of Christmas was spent playing with our toys and enjoying for once a simple and slow paced day.  It was nice not have to be anywhere or to have to get ready for company coming over.  It was nice to spend the day together.  I enjoyed relaxing in my new pajama pants from the kids as well as playing with them.  Occasionally we would pick up some trash in between our playing.  That night some of us enjoyed a hot bowl of chili while others thought chili was not appetizing.  We ended the day watching a couple of Mormon Tabernacle Christmas programs on PBS.  Christmas this year as it is every year was simply GREAT!

Christmas Part One

It is tradition in my family to have our family Christmas celebration at our house and we usually have it in conjuction with making the wreath to place of Fred's (my stepdad) grave as our Christmas present to him.

The kids worked hard before and after church getting everything ready.  We all pitched in to decorate and to cook our feast as well.  It was magical because there was no complaining everyone work hard and worked well together.

This year I decided to make a Christmas dinner and to put on a Christmas program too.  I believe if the wheel isn't broke don't fix it and I used this belief in putting together our Christmas program.  I knew there were lots of programs out there on the internet and found one that would work for our family and printed it out.  Presto!  Done!  My mom has always wanted to have the nativity acted out with the Grandchildren and I figured this year we could make it work.  Anthony was Joseph, Madeline was Marry, a teddy bear was baby Jesus (We don't own any dolls), Spencer was a bored wiseman, Grant was an awesome and animated shepherd, Emily was our star or should we say wondering and falling star, Jonathan was the spotlight, and I was the narrator.  I loaded up the songs on Grant's I-pod to make it easier to play for our sing-a-long and off we went.  I didn't have time to rehearse with the kids which I think made it even more enjoyable.  It was nice to be singing and celebrating the Birth of our Savior as a family.  After our nativity program we opened presents which everyone enjoyed.  After all the excitement over our knew treasures we enjoyed our yummy treats and chatting as a family.  It was a great evening.

Raking Leaves

This is an annual tradition for our family.  When we got back from Utah for Thanksgiving our front yard was covered with leaves and our backyard the same.  Sometimes it is a challenge fitting it in, but the kids love to pile the leaves us and play in them.  There is something about playing in the leaves that brings the kid out in you.  We usually bring the leaves from the front yard to the back yard and add it to the pile there.  Grant then takes some of the leaves and uses it for his garden.  The kids love to pile the leaves in front of the slide and slide down into it.  We were blessed this year with Spring like weather which made it a fun afternoon.

Christmas Advent

Our kids look forward to Christmas Countdown.  Some years it is a challenge to get everything in, but the excitement on the kids' face when they see the red box come out is worth any challenge.  I didn't get pictures of everything and there have been some weeks that feel like a whirlwind, but I will do my best to capture how we counted down to Christmas in 2012.

1.  Decorate the tree.  The kids look forward to this every year.  Grant and I assemble the tree, flock it, and put the lights on.  We do this the day before the kids decorate the tree.  I hand over the ornament box over to the kids and they go to to town decorating the tree and they even re-decorate it through the month.  Each year one of the kids gets the privilege of putting the star on and turning on the lights.  It is a big celebration in the Cooper house.

2.  We always look forward to the First Presidency Christmas Devotional.  We gather around our computer and this year we enjoyed watching it with Pumpkin Pie.  For me Christmas doesn't start until we hear from the First Presidency.

3.  We enjoyed a run to sonic for yummy shakes.
4.  Played an exciting and fast pace game of Monopoly
5.  Enjoyed making our own Ice Cream Sundays
6.  Rake and play in the leaves
7.  Snow Cones

8.  This year we celebrated Dec 12, 2012.  I bought a dozen donuts and while we enjoyed our yummy treat we sang "12 Days of Christmas."

9.  Sleep under the tree with Christmas lights on.  The kids jump for joy when this one is pulled out of the advent box.  They absolutely love this little tradition of ours.  Personally it is way too much light to be able to sleep.

10.  Watched "Home Alone."  Grant thought the kids would enjoy watching the robbers go through the fun maze.  Unfortunately we forgot about the little bits of language.  The kids enjoyed watching the robbers get attacked, but we probably won't get it again because of the language.

11.  Gingerbread Houses.  This is another favorite tradition in the Cooper Household.  We save all the unwanted Halloween candy for this occasion.  Our gingerbread houses might be unique with all the Halloween style candy on it, but the kids have fun.

12.  "Charlie Brown Christmas" with a treat!  This is another Cooper tradition along with....
13.   " How the Grinch Stole Christmas" with a Grinch treat.
14.  Make snowflake cookies out of tortillas
15.  Watch "Polar Express" with popcorn
16.  Make the annual wreath for Papa Bear's Grave
17.  Ward Christmas Party
18.  Sing Noel concert
19.  Eating out at I-hop

I know there were more, but the list is gone and so is my memory.  Anyway you get a glimpse of how we counted down to Christmas this year.

Thanksgiving

During our week in Utah we went up to the Dinosaur Quarry with our family, Wayne's family, Ginger's family, Hunter and Rachael, and Grant's mother.  We were able to see Dinosaur bones still in the side of the mountain.  They built the Quarry over the mountain to preserve the bones.  They have several dinosaur skeletons too looks at as well as dinosaur facts.  The kids had fun looking around and exploring.  Afterwards we went on a hike outside of the Quarry.  Grant and Madeline went up high enough to see some more dinosaur bones and the rest of us tried to keep up with Anthony.  The kids enjoyed running and burning off some energy.  I never saw Anthony or the rest of the gang as they were way ahead.  It was nice to be outside and away from the city.  After our hike, our family went off to the dinosaur museum that they had in Vernal.  It was fun to see all the dinosaur and to learn more about the history of the dinosaurs in that area; most of all it was just nice to be spending time as a family.

Thanksgiving was spent in Utah with Grant's family.  This year all but one of the siblings and grandchild were able to make it to Utah.  With mostly everyone there we were able to get a family picture, which was nice.  While everything was cooking on Thanksgiving, Grant took the kids to a local park and I stayed behind to repack and to do a little reading.  It was nice to have some quiet time.  After the park, Madeline got on her chef hat and apron and helped out a little in the kitchen making deviled eggs and gravy for the potatoes.  Madeline loves to cook and help out in the kitchen, so she was excited when an opportunity presented itself for her to play chef.  Dinner was great and the company was great too.  All the cousins played really well together and for the most part we didn't see much of them, we heard them but didn't really see them.  Our room turned into the playroom and the kitchen table turned into the art studio for the girls.  It was nice to see all the cousins playing together.  After things digested, Grant and I went for a walk around the neighborhood.  The weather was pleasant and it was nice to get out for a bit.  I have to say that my lungs were sure not use to the elevation, walking up the hills was sometimes a challenge.  I was able to close off Thanksgiving day with a little football, it wouldn't be Thanksgiving without watching the Dallas Cowboys.   Grant's parents recorded the game for me to watch later.  Since I already knew the Cowboys lost, I didn't watch the whole thing but it was nice to watch some football.

On Friday we packed things up and headed over to to Salt Lake.  Prior to arriving in Salt Lake we made a stop in Bountiful to take the kids to the Bountiful Temple.  Grant and I were married there 12 years ago and we wanted to bring the kids to where our Eternal Family started.  I also wanted to get a picture of our kids in front of the temple.  It was nice to walk around and to reminisce with Grant about our day 12 years ago.  The temple is gorgeous and the view is breathtaking.  I am so glad that I followed my dream and was able to be sealed to Grant in the Bountiful Temple and it was neat to bring our kids back to the very Temple where it all started.  We were able to talk about Eternal Families and blessings of being an Eternal Family as well as the blessings that come from being able to attend the temple.

While in Salt Lake we wanted to show the kids Temple Square and to see the Christmas Lights on Temple Square.  Grant's brother and his family were going to meet us there too and spend the afternoon/evening with us.  I think every plan has good intentions and this is one of them. waiting for Wayne we decided to walk in the Family History Library and see if Grant's Aunt who is serving a mission there was available.  We figured if she wasn't at the front desk then we wouldn't hunt her down.  Well she was at the front desk and so it was nice to have a visit with her.  After her shift she joined us at the Church History Museum.  The kids enjoyed playing around in the children's Book of Mormon exhibit and then we all enjoyed looking around at the different Church History stuff, especially Anthony.  After our time at the Museum, we headed over the conference center.  I was really looking forward to going to the roof, but we missed it by five minutes.  We enjoyed walking through the place anyway and seeing where Conference is held and looking at all the the pictures.  There is one room that has pictures of the past Apostles on the walls.  One of them was Parely P. Pratt who we are related to on Grant's Maternal side.  I took a picture of the kids with their fourth great grandfather.  After our walk around the Conference Center we saw that the lights were on and off we were to see them.  This is where every plan has good intentions.  Friday happened to be the day they turned on the lights coupled with Black Friday shopping at the nearby mall, made it impossible to see anything.  There were so many people there and keeping a group of ten or more together was challenging.  It was hard to walk around and enjoy the lights because you felt like you were being herded like cows.  I thought about going inside the Visitor Center but that looked like Walmart during early morning hours of Black Friday shopping.  Instead I just showed the kids the Christus statue from outside.  After we were herded around the lights we were hungry, but finding a place to eat was a challenge.  The mall was impossible and we didn't want to leave our hotel and lose our parking spot in the crowds of people.  We decided at this time we would split up and each family would go their own separate way for dinner.  I was glad when the evening was over and my back especially was glad when it hit the bed for a good nights rest.  I am glad that we were able to go and see the lights, but a lesson was learned...never go on the day after Thanksgiving.

Saturday morning we were up and out for the drive home.  We stopped in Provo to get BYU shirts and to refill Anthony's book collection, three books was not enough for Anthony.  Because we had to be home by Sunday night so Grant and the kids could return to work/school we just had to drive and not really stop and do things on the way home.  We tried to make it to four corners, but we were 30 minutes late.   The kids did well on our trip home which is pretty good when all you have time to do is drive.  We wished we had time to explore southern Utah, but instead we made plans for when we go up for Christmas next year.  

We were so glad that we made the impromptu trip to Utah and that we were able to spend Thanksgiving with Grant's family.  It was nice to take a break from our busy lives and to have some time with our little family.  However, it did take me a week to unpack and it is now after Christmas and the car has yet to be washed and cleaned out from our Thanksgiving trip.  Yeah life has been really busy for us, but we are floating along.

Utah Part One

A few months ago Grant was talking to his mother during their weekly Sunday chats and we learned that his sister, Virginia who lives in Texas, was coming up to Utah for Thanksgiving.  Grant and I started talking about it and we decided it would be neat if we went to Utah for Thanksgiving as well.  We looked over our finances and saw that it was possible, Grant checked on his vacation from work to make sure he could take the time off; when all of those were good we began to plan our trip to Utah.  We knew it would be a lot of driving, but we knew it would be worth it to spend Thanksgiving with the whole family.

The first thing we did was go and visit with one of Grant's Aunts and Uncles.  We always enjoy visiting with Aunt Irene and Uncle Karl, Grant is practically one of their kids so for him it is like coming home.  It was at this visit that Grant had an amazingly crazy idea to take us down to the seep to throw rocks in the water.  What is the seep you ask?  Well if you ask me it is a grueling hour hike through sage brush and thick sand to the river.  Lets just say I was not skipping along excited to go for a hike.  You know I grew up in the city and the only hiking we did was hiking around the mall or walmart during the holiday shopping season; and the only tricky part was navigating ourselves around huge throngs of people all trying to cram in the coveted toy or electronic section.  I enjoy going for walks on firm cement, but hiking through sage brush, thick sand, and over boulders was not something I was too excited about.  Don't get me wrong the view was pretty and I was content to enjoy the view from my car; but knowing how important this place was to Grant I knew it was best for me to hike.  I knew for it to be a successful family adventure that I needed to be totally on board and excited, or else the kids wouldn't want to go.  So I put a smile on my face and off we went.  Grant, the great man that he is, carried Madeline the whole way down and especially the whole way up.  He wants her to be able to enjoy everything we do and if that means he needs to carry her, he will.  Anthony was in his element and it soon became apparent that as a family we would not be able to keep up with him.  I figured he was safe, I mean we are in the middle of no where, and when I saw NO WHERE that is what I mean.  I knew there wouldn't be any predators looking to scoop up an innocent boy and if he got lost he could just yell; because after all we were in the middle of nowhere and would be able to hear him.  Anthony climbed up some pretty high cliffs and for this scared of heights mother I did everything I could not to fall over from a heart attack.  Just like his father I knew he was having the time of his life and if his Dad wasn't running after him then he must be okay.  I decided to busy myself with taking pictures or focusing on the scenery and not how high up Anthony was.  Spencer on the other hand hiked like a good trooper but he was good at pointing out how tired he was and when we could go back to the car.  I was not surprised to hear how tired Spencer was because he insisted on carrying this big rock all the way from the top of our hike down to the bottom.  You see this rock was special and it needed to be thrown in the water.  Grant and I were not about to carry this "special" rock for him.  We thought after he got tired he would see that the rock wasn't so "special" and just leave it, but no stubborn and insisting Spencer carried his "special" rock while voicing his feelings all the way down to the water.  Once we got to the water, Madeline and Spencer enjoyed throwing rocks in the water.  Anthony enjoyed the view from a high above cliff, and well me I handed over the camera to Grant and had him take pictures of the kids throwing rocks in the water.  You see I was over the hiking through sage brush and just didn't have it in me to hike through the last bit of sage brush to get to shores to see my kids throw rocks in the water.  It took us an hour to hike down and an hour to hike up.  Let just say hiking up in thick sand is a better work then any treadmill can do.  Anthony and I hiked a head of the group, my pace was pretty good for I knew the destination was the car.  Grant stayed behind carrying Madeline and listening to Spencer voice his feelings.  Though he was tired and done with hiking he walked the whole way, he just wanted to make sure his Dad knew how tired he was.  In the end I am glad Grant took us on this hike, it was nice to be together as a family in the middle of nowhere-ville.  There weren't any distractions, nor was there anything trying to steal our time from each other.  It was nice to be surrounded by God's creations spending time as a family and making memories with each other.

While in Utah I was also able to go a do session in the Vernal Temple with Grant's Mom and Sister-in-law.  Grant's Mom and I have a tradition that whenever we visit each other we go and do a session in the temple.  Usually it is when she comes and visit us here, but this time we were able to do it on her home turf.  I love going to the Temple and with how crazy busy life has been it was really nice to stop and be reminded of what life is all about.  The Vernal Temple is beautiful, as all the Temples are.  After our session I treated everyone to lunch before heading back home.  Grant stayed back and watched the kids so that we could have ladies day at the Temple.  I really enjoyed my time at the Temple and as always I walked away with a little more understanding.

Longhorn Scout Camporee

Grant was able to take Anthony to his first Scout Camporee.  It was put on by the Longhorn Council and was held at the Texas Motor Speedway.  They were able to camp on the Speedway as well as watch some of the actual race cars drive around the track.  They spent all day Saturday participating in different activities as well as fighting the wind.  Apparently the wind was pretty relentless and made for an interesting night of camping when your dad forgot the stakes to the tent.  I think after fighting the wind for the day Anthony was worn out and the thrill of going to a Camporee was lost.  Lucky for him they only put this on every four years, so when it comes around again hopefully he would have forgotten about the wind and how hard it was to fight it, and will want to go to it again and experience the fun with lots of other scouts.  Spencer will get to go the next time it rolls around, that should be pretty interesting-at least for Grant.